Know the power of human sexuality; master the art of regulating it; identify the ways to be in love constantly in lasting relationships; love yourself; love your partner;  sexuality is simply a tool for greater union and transcendence. Change the narrative on sex.

Be real;be authentic;work your way out of the  neurosis of the repressive conditionings. Neurosis is the inability to prevent being self indulgent. Indulge in becoming you; not in your pathological inclinations that you have been conditioned to know as you. You are far more fantastic and beautiful than anyone would care to tell you.

Take the Sexual intelligence test:

Sexual Intelligence Survey

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Strongly Agree  Agree   Neutral      Moderately Agree      Disagree             

1.      Sex is an expression of love         

2.      The source of sexual satisfaction

does matter

3.      Fulfillment of the sexual drive

without love has little satisfaction

for me

4.       I am only aroused  by love when the

need for sexual act arises within me

5.      I see sex as a sacred act

6.      Sex means love and life to me

7.      My sex drive has  nothing to do with

my pent up aggression

8.      Seeing violent scenes in films/TV  put

me off sex

9.      My habits are not guided  by my

need for sexual satisfaction

10.  Every sexual act I engage in is voluntary

and a conscious action

11.  Even when I am strongly aroused I

am acutely aware of the boundaries of

others

12.  Even when I am stimulated sexually I

remember the consequences of my action

13.   I have the capacity to delay my sexual

Gratification

14.  Sexual drive is natural for me –as important

as food

15.  Just as I eat healthy food, I engage in

sexual union that is healthy

16.  Sexual satisfaction is everyone’s right

as long as it does not violate the rights of

others

17.  Sexual encounters are not a way of

fulfilling a lack within me

18.  My sexual experiences are  healing

19.  My sexual interactions empower me

and my partner

20.  I approach each sexual act as a form of

union

21.  I consciously ensure that my sexual

encounter bring satisfaction to me

and my partner

22.  I take special care to make each experience

special and beautiful

23.  I see sex as a form of loving and intense

communication with my partner

24.  I see sex as a loving and intense communication

with God

25.  After my sexual experience I feel relaxed,

fulfilled and a love for life

26.  I take adequate precaution to ensure the

sexual health of myself and my partner

27.  I have a steady sexual partner

28.  I ensure that my sexual fantasies center around

me and my sexual partner

29.  I believe in the right of couples to abort

unwanted pregnancies

30.  My sexual encounter is empowering and

Invigorating because it is free of fear

31.  I often have sexual thoughts-but make sure

to reign them in appropriately

32.  To me sex is the medium of love and truth

about me and my partner

33.  I have a great sense of gratitude for my partner